Yes, You Bet I'm Resentful
When we moved my 85 year old mother in with us almost a year ago it was because she was having problems taking care of her apt. She was having problems doing her laundry and cooking also.
Fast forward to today, since she's been here, she's been fine. She wants to cook, she does her laundry and sometimes she dusts. She is just fine and can function independently. It's clearly obvious and quite the change from a year ago.
Shortly after she moved in she said "I didn't think you wanted me to live with you".
Then we saw the reality of things. This was her way of getting us to take her in.
We are miserable and we want her in her own place.
We are trying to see what we can find for her. Money IS an issue in this case.
Yes I resent this. You bet I do.