My sister passed away unexpectedly and she was my parents' caregiver. I don't work and live close enough to now be the caregiver. My Mother is sweet but my Dad is demanding and controlling. He's not afraid of death. He's afraid of not being in control!
When I'm there he treats me like a slave when he's perfectly capable of doing tasks. But he'd rather be treated like a king. He's 79 and has had health problems and he keeps living because he's such a stubborn SOB! I know it is wrong but I wish he were dead!