Wife is Fed up with Husband and so is his 2 Grown Children.
by Frustrated Wife
My husband has been seeing after is bedridden mother in the nursing home by himself... she has two capable daughters that do nothing and could care less also now, that she is in the nursing home my husband has to become guardian for his step-mentally challenged alcoholic brother that is drinking himself to death....doctors have told him to stop drinking.
Right now my husband works 12 hours daily and sometime leaves work and goes to the nursing home and spend several hours there and gets home about 8-9 at night sometimes later. Every weekend he has to check on his brother that we moved near us in an apartment get his groceries, pay his bills, get him to doctor appointments, and everything else.
His mother has brothers and one sister that does not help either. Sad thing this mother wanted to give my husband away to relatives when he was born. My husband gets upset with our 2 children because they don't go to the nursing home to visit their Grandmother but she never bonded with them when they were young so they don't really know her much at all. For me and husband their is just no time for us because he is always burnt out and this has been going on for 4 years now. Any advice out there.
Oh, this year I am home nursing a knee replacement because I was trying to help him by going to visit with his mother and I got rear ended and jammed my knee under my dash and had to have a total knee replacement so I an kind of pissed and so is my grown kids.