Trying to care for mother, father, and a grandmother who is in nursing
I am 51 years old. My parents and I live together. My grandmother was with us for a few years. My grandmother was in a long term care facility until it closed, it took months to find her a new place.
She is now in a new assisted living facility. It is very nice and it has a lot of amenities. She never leaves her room and I was going 4 to 5 days a week.
At this same time my mom is very ill. She has a paralyzed diaphragm, 350 lbs, agoraphobia, depression and can’t get off the couch.
My dad has COPD, black lung, has had several stokes and a heart attack, but he’s still trying to help. I work full time and for the first time in my life I have a boyfriend who I want to spend time with.
I have a brother who rarely helps, a niece who never comes around, a nephew who has coned them out of their life savings. My Aunt, Uncle, and cousins are of no help. Looking for advice.