My mother 77 had a fall in March of 2019 It's a long story, but she has a Muscular Disorder. It has left her totally Crippled. My sister came down for a while after the fall and left the end of May 2019.(she does not work)
My mother then decided and nothing was discussed,she moved her way into my house. I am not married and me and my boyfriend live together.I work 3-jobs to support myself.
My mother is totally disabled. I can't take care of her anymore. she knew that when she fell in March and we were not on speaking terms.
Our relationship is very abusive verbally that is why I left home at 17. I am 56 now at the height of my career I have one daughter who needs me.
I am asking for suggestions as where she needs to go for the help I get told every day I am a selfish "Bitch". she cusses in my house. I can't take it anymore.
My boyfriend and I want our home back and I want her to get the help she needs. I have to stay healthy and strong for my daughter.
It's at the point, I don't want to come home anymore after work.
I want my quiet peaceable life back, the stress is not my jobs those are easy. Its when I get home.
My boyfriend is a wonderful man, we both have been through horrible relationships.. My mother has made him to take care of her too.. We are not married and I feel he does not have to. This is definitely, putting stress on our relationship. I don't want to loose him.
I am not a care giver!!! I hate Bed Pans !!!
I need a change quick