Stressed I have Oblogations to my Husband, Mom, Work, House finances Moms' and Mine.

by Debra
(Kentucky)

HELP!!!!! just not telling them because they just get depressed because they feel they have no one else to help them and they get in the woe is me attitude so I feel selfish for bringing it up. I have 2 sisters that will not help or can't help.

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I Know How You Feel
by: Anonymous

Debra,

I am in a very similar situation except I am an only child. It certainly is very stressful juggling your own life or lack of a life more like.

I find worrying about practical things like finances is nearly if not more stressful than caring for an elderly parent. However, there are always people in worse situations so I guess counting our blessings will help us through when there is no magic wand to take away the burdens.

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