I have been the sole caregiver for my elderly mother for the past 6 years. I have one sibling who only sees or visits our mom on birthdays and special holidays. He has one job, grown children, and lives on his own. Besides being a caregiver, I have one other job that allows me to work from home.
After cursing at me and humiliating me in front of our mother, and clients, I have decided to completely cut him out of my life. This sibling has often cursed at me and always puts others (and me) down when the chance is given.
For the past 10 months, I have not mentioned his name to my mom. When he visits, I can hear him telling my mom things about me. I no longer care what is said. I live in peace with myself now.