Siblings no Help and Mother is a Narcissist
Being the oldest and the fact that two of my sisters are addicts and a brother with no common sense the burden falls on me. It never even occurs to them that they should do something so I am stuck with my narcissist mother.
She always puts the quilt trip on me even when I am being honest and direct...she gets defensive and turns everything around. And then, of course, everything is my fault. She never takes responsibility for anything she does.