Mother has Alzheimer's ... dad is a drinker and aging.
Both have been married for 63 years. 3 out of 10 siblings caring for my mother (and father) at home.
One sibling continues to threaten us with taking legal guardianship over my mother b/c of my father's anger, depression, aging, drinking, etc.
It's hard but we are doing the best we can (the caretakers)...but she threatens my dad's drinking over us.
She has consulted an Elder Lawyer for the Elderly to look at her case, what can we do? She said she is in process of getting everyone together at some deposition to state what is real about my father's drinking.