Resentful Sister

I am the youngest daughter and live the closest to my parents, however 15 years ago my father died and my mother has vascular dementia. For the last 15 years I have helped my mom with her home and appointments and all needs. I was then put in charge of her by her attorney and all hell broke lose as my oldest sister thought it should be her.


I have slowly backed off from my company through the years to be there for her and now am in trouble financially. If I ask my sister for anything she throws this in my face and will not come even when mom is in the hospital.

I am so fed up with her attitude I disengaged myself from the relationship. I cannot be put down anymore.

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