Resentful of Siblings
I was a stay at home parent. I did work some after our kids got out on their own. When my mom and my uncle who lived together and started needing help each day I was there everyday. I did all the daily things that were needed. Getting their meds and giving them their meds everyday.
My uncle died 2 years ago so mom moved in with me and my husband. I have a brother and a sister who do nothing to help us. I have to make my sister mad to get any help at all.
She will maybe get mom a weekend or two a month. She is still working but will not retire to help. I feel so used and taken for granted by my siblings. My brother lives about 2 hours away but goes a month or more and not even a phone call. My sister is just as bad she has not called mom since middle of June.
I have sacrificed my life for my mom I don't resent her I do resent my siblings. My husband and I could also use the extra income. My mom has early signs of dementia and cant live alone. She really needs someone with her she gets confused sometimes and does not remember where she is.
I don't understand how they can neglect her so much. It feels better to let this out. Thank you