Out of sight out of mind
My siblings both live in different states. I am totally responsible for taking care of my moms needs. She lived on her own and then moved in with me and my husband for 6 years until I could not take care of her anymore.
Now she is in a nursing home. Out of the 6 years, she might have visited a sibling 1 time. Neither sibling wanted to take her for a week or so, just to give me and my husband a break...
I work a full 40 hour job and took care of her, even with her being in a home i am still responsible for her needs. I am physically and mentally exhausted..
I am so angry, because they don't care. I want to take care of my Mom, but why do they expect to have a life and I cant. Its like I have lost my own identity..