Ones Bitchy and Ones Being Weird

by Anonymous

My parents are driving me crazy. My dad is a chronic complainer, you buy food he don't want it, there isn't food he bitches. My son ran out of gas and my mom had to go rescue him off the side of the road, so dad bitches.


Every frickin little thing. My son has a friend over, he bitches. Just on and on. He don't see good out of one eye, blind (supposedly) in the other, yet the things he sees, hearing is crap, diabetic but wont monitor sugars, missing a toe so walks funny, way over weight because he won't stop eating all the dam food. UGGGG.

Then my mom is just getting weird, she has heart problems, but has a pacemaker, and can still do things, but don't, she sits in her dam chair all day, and takes naps.

You ask her a question she just stares at you half the time, or my favorite you ask a question and she says oh. I don't know how many times I have had to explain to her I ask you a question I expect a answer not a blank stare or oh.

She will do dishes, and still cooks, but has to be reminded to vacuum, and getting her to wipe down her bathroom counter what a joke.

We live in the country, I feel like I need to quit work just to clean the dam house. I want out of there so bad. Oh the latest complaint, we have a huge yard, like over a acre, and only a push mower, my son and I try to keep up on it, but when you don't have a mower for awhile it's kinda hard, it has rained a lot here so can't mow when it's wet and the grass is extremely long so now cant even use the mower.

We get bitched at every day because were not running the mower, yet he complains if the mower breaks. So do i mow and break it, or not mow and try to do something else? Do I buy food so he can complain, or leave the fridge empty.

I am so tired of buying groceries that honestly I never see, and having to hear him bitch about no food. Yet if I buy chips and pop he never complains.

I am just so sick of it, I wish he would have another issue and have to go to the hospital so I could talk to the doctor about getting him some happy pills, or something or just leaving him in a home. UGGG so fed up with my parents.

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by: Anonymous

People need to live life like you stole it because getting old sucks. I lived my life my way, I had no family and I traveled and partied like there was no tomorrow.

Now I sit alone old yet still able to do whatever I want, I hope to die in my sleep, I have no one to mourn me and have to leave my estate to the humane society.

I had rather be hit by a bus than cause someone to have to take care of me. I will say one thing life was a blast, loved every minute of it. No one owes me anything and I wish the best for all and truly feel for anyone that is sad.

You only get one shot of this life, please live it and love it for tomorrow it will be gone. There have been times on holidays I have felt bad and wanted family but not to be.

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