Once Again She Turns into the Victim
My mom has a habit of watching me and staring at me for hours, no matter what I'm doing. The last 3 times I told her she made me feel uncomfortable she claimed she wasn't watching me but thinking of other things.
Well, the staring continues and tonight I had had enough (again) and I told her to STOP watching me all the time. Again she said "I'm not watching you, I'm thinking of other things" Well while she is thinking of other things, she is asking me questions about what I am doing, so yes she is watching me.
When I pointed that out to her she said "never mind forget it" and then she demanded I take her to her room.
I was thrilled to say goodnight and then return to the (finally) solitude of my family room.
She acts all insulted when I ask her to stop staring at me. My space is violated constantly and she is the one who is offended?
If she insists on staring at me each day , I will remove myself and go elsewhere then she can stare at an empty room to her hearts content.