My father is more controlling and abusive than ever. He tries to control me but I won't allow it. I need to live my own life. I am not his care giver. He just like to have the upper hand and have other people be his puppets. He has my mother confined to the house.
He won't let her have any social life and she won't stand up for herself. He is getting worse as he ages to the point where I simply don't enjoy his company.
I really don't want to spend time with my parents. They seem to dump all there negativity on me. If I try to explain how I feel or get them involved in any new activity it does not work. Has anyone experienced this.