No More Resentment

by Anne
(New Jersey)

I am the caregiver of my elderly father. I have a selfish sister with a dinky job who states that she works and can't help. She is full of ideas but she expects me to follow through with those dumb ideas.

I recently told her that if she has any "ideas" that she can set up things, etc.

I am now using my father's money for people to come in and stay with him while I resume my life, get back to the gym, go out...etc.

Since Dad made her Executor of his will years and years ago because she's the oldest, I told him today that he changes it or I am out of here.