Narcissitic and Absent Sibling...no help
Yes. The guilt and anger are real. A brother, who was the golden child in parents' eyes, is no help.
Parents express that "he's too busy or he does a lot." He does nothing except cause anxiety and depression. I, in turn,am not the same person I once was with the whole family.
I especially resent my mother who I believe put me in this position by showering her son with ridiculous compliments and fostering his narcissism.
I hate this life and hate taking care of them. The younger brother even stole twenty thousand which I believe was given to him secretly by the mother I must take care of. How do I manage? I am praying a lot!