My Father-in-Law wants Everything to be Free to Him!
All of my father-in-law's children but me and my husband live far away and I get stuck dealing with him. He has more than adequate money, but expects me to pay all the gas to chauffeur him to town, meals,do his laundry, clean his house(I even have to use my own cleaning supplies when I clean over there), etc.
He gives money to charity, his church and even his own kids but seems to resent me asking for my expenses back. My husband was sick a few weeks back and I had to hire someone to mow his lawn.
He went through the roof, family helps family. But what about my expenses and time and I am not even his child. I am resentful of his using me, when he gives money to his friends, church and none to those who actually are doing the work.
He even told me the last time that he was in the hospital, that he doesn't need me to feel obligated to take care of him. I lost two days from my work and my husband didn't even stop to see him while he was in the hospital.