My Brother keeps asking Husband to do Things

by Kathy
(Uk)

My mum went into a care home.. And my brother asked my husband for some bit to be done around my mums house. So I said yes... He can install a new bathroom. Then there was talk about sorting her things out. I know I've been avoiding this but I'm fuming because my husband started chucking things out. I said that I didn't want him to do that as it did not have anything to do with him to make that decision. A week went past and it was clear he was still going to the house.

Doing more things like tiling in the kitchen. I didn't say anything although I am not happy he is there! Then today my son said they had been down my mums house again this time discussing with my brother about getting a van to remove her stuff.

I'm very upset about this, I don't know why because my mum and I weren't close but shes not dead and although she has Alzheimer's she is much nicer now. I'm trying to make sense of what's going on and trying to keep in perspective. My husband doesn't work... I wish he'd put as much time in getting a job as seems to spending at my mums.