Mum will Not Go Into Care
I am my 91 year old mothers carer, she has Alzheimer's dementia and thinks that all her insides have been removed and she can't eat and drink because she has nothing to do it with, although she does eat and drink, so I don't know what she is thinking when she does.
I have been her carer for over a year now, We moved from our home in another country to look after her, We rent here and live a few miles away,
We still have our house overseas but have not been there for over a year. Money is getting really tight because we have to rent and don't have any money coming in apart from my husbands works pension.
I really feel as though I've lost my life and can see no future, by the time I get my life back I will be too old, I can see no answer to this.
I have read through all the comments and this has helped me so much hearing that I am not the only one going through this.
My mum is adamant that she will not go into a home and I can't make her, so will have to wait this out, but for how long!!!!!