I had to move back with my Mum now 85 temporarily with my 15 ye old daughter . I am like both their careers and Ibwork full time. Everything I do my mum grumbles. We use to b so close but she has turned horrible. I bring her shopping. I try to help but she is angry all the time. My daughter just laughs but I am so scared and upset. She never goes out so I have to bring in all the supplies.
When I do she gives out I did it all wrong. Then she tells me to get out. I brought her out to the local shopping centre where we always went. She can't walk like she used to and just screamed, get me home. My two brothers do nothing but live near. I am a separated single parent.
I am feeling so overwhelmed. My daughter is sick and Mum is in bed most of the day. Then she gets up and has soup and smokes until 3.00pm in the morning. I feel 😭 I don't know where to turn. I'm trying my best but it's not working. I can't do this anymore. I don't want to leave her alone. But it may be the only way to keep sane....
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