My daughter is married to a woman whom I love very much. Recently they had triplets. I made a comment one day after changing his diaper, that he is really big down there! I of course was joking, they know me better than that.
I am not a crude person and have been completely helpful to them during this difficult time. My daughter ripped into me and said I made myself a victim, which I surely did not.
I apologized profusely and again stated it was just an inappropriate joke. I regret saying it. She hasn’t been texting me as much and maybe thinks I’m a pervert.
I feel bad and don’t know if I should let it go and wait for her to invite me down(they live in New York) or suggest it myself.