My hubby and i are the sole caregivers of my elderly father who is 85. I have 2 siblings who do sweet FA as they can't stand him. He's a misogynistic, religious fanatic, A bigot and an aggressive argumentative arsehole. If you don't agree with him or his opinion he lashes out.
He was pretty tough when we were kids on Mum and us kids but now he's alone, he's gotten worse. This has some relevance to my situation. We were raised Catholics and my husband became one so we could get married in the Catholic church, otherwise he wouldn't have gone to our wedding.
Anyway the other night, my father starts on this mad rant about my husband not being a Catholic bc he doesn't go to church every week or confession. I'm 54 and husband is 60. I lost my temper with and told him to mind his own business.
I'm still angry with him as we are adults a and he is interfering in our married life. I wish he would die, because he is killing me.