Karen

by Karen
(Alvin texad)

My brother and sister both in their 50's don't help take care of my elderly 84 year old mother. One lives 15 minutes away and comes to her house maybe twice a week and the other lives 39 min away and comes maybe 3 times a year. My husband and I live with her and don't have the freedom to come and go as they please. We have to standee someone to stay with her if we want some time to our selves.


We live in her house and if she passed away I will have to sell it and be homeless in order to give the their share. Doesn't seem right! I would just rather some help and have a little more freedom. Any advice??

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