Just Wondering...?

by Rosemary
(Jax)

My 90 year old mom lives with my husband and I just shy of two years now due to medical issues. I have 4 siblings, one nearby.


My question: Do I have a right to know when one of my siblings comes to my home, unexpected, while I am out of town? Or, because they are visiting mom, should they be allowed access to her as if she were in a nursing home?

This recently happened and I feel strong resentment that my right to privacy was overlooked. Please advise...thanks.

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