Is This Enough?
I live 86 miles from my elderly mother. I have 2 sisters living near her and 1 living in England. My older sister does most of the visiting and care and seems happy with that but my younger sister gets really mad with me (we used to have a good relationship)She keeps ringing and telling me I am not doing enough and shouting!
I visit my mum every Wednesday and spend the entire day with her, doctors appointments, shopping etc. I also spend a week-end a month up with her. I have taken her for Christmas for the last 10 years, also Easter etc. and any other time that I can. Is this enough? She has a home help who comes in each morning to help her dress etc. for 1 hours. Mam is 87 years old and has
My sister certainly does not think so but I can not visit any more than I am. I work (self employed) and have a family also, husband(grown children and grandchildren)I would like an opinion as I am not sure what is enough any more.