I love her BUT
I do love her, always have, and have no doubt she loves me, BUT I have NO LIFE except to help her, drive her, prepare her meals-she does NOT like to eat what we eat, do her shopping, manage all her needs from doctors' appointments to buying all the products to support her incontinence.
She tries, (she says) BUT she seems unsatisfied that I do not do enough for her. Given my above 'rant', I have found some practices that have helped me out. I push all three tri-yearly doctors' appointments into the same week of the month, then the blood work will satisfy them all.
I keep up with of all her incontinence needs by ordering in case lots. I keep her medications managed by filling daily-AM and PM doses-in monthly containers.
It drives me crazy that when in the doctors' offices she will not listen to what each doctor is saying but rather she talks about her great grandchildren and gets photos out of her purse and has me show photos from my tablet. Then asks: "what did he say?"
It sounds like I have little to complain about... so, I don't know why I feel that I am borderline angry!!! I want to say: PLEASE just let me have some time... ?