I Have Had Enough
After taking care of my mother that had lung cancer by my self she lost her fight after 2 years.
I was thrown into the role as sole caretaker of 91 year old step dad that no one likes because he is insulting and talks dirty to women and me he has always talked like that and my mother allowed it.
My sister told my mother he molested her when she was 12 and my mother told her to shut up and don't cause a fight! When I tell him to stop talking that way he gets mad and says he is just joking and for me to stop being so serious everyone else likes it.
I tell him he is going to get arrested when someone slaps him with a lawsuit for it. He has willed everything to me and has given me power of attorney over him because I am the only who tolerates him.
But today was the last straw yesterday I went with my 26 year old daughter shopping just to get away for a while and didn't get home until 8 pm because I was my old self and smiled.
He questioned me and asked if I found a boyfriend because I look like I need a good "blanking" and he could help me out with that. I told him he was crazy and that he needs to see a doctor and he told me f u and for me to leave.
I told him I will put his ass away. He treats me like I am my mother and I tell him to stop it. He is hooked on Hydrocodone and nerve pills and only complains of pain when he takes one.
My mother left us her jewelry but he said she didn't want us to have anything of hers because he is greedy. I am going to see social services to see what I can do to put him in a home or something.
I have gotten to where I stay mad and depressed because of him and the situation and it has aged me. I tried to get a job to get away from him but he cries wolf and puts a guilt trip on me.