I Hate my Mother and Father
I am the sole caregiver for my 70 year old mother who has late stage dementia. She is in diapers and is incontinent pretty much all the time.
I live with her in my sister's home and I also watch my two nieces who are 15 and 12. They try to help me but they're just children. My Father also lives here but won't watch his wife even if I need to go to the restroom but yet he cries saying seeing his wife like this is very upsetting.
He still works a full-time job so he says that because he does he shouldn't have to watch her besides he says it's women's work. My sister can't help mainly because she has a lot of medical issues on her own and honestly her and my Mom never had a great relationship she only keeps my mom around for the income she provides.
I hate my life. I'm in my 40's and fill like life is passing me by I've been out of work now for over 3 years and honestly resent both of my parents.
I am so angry that I'm taking it out on my Mom.
My car died so my dad purchased a used one for me but he threatens to take it away constantly in addition takes it on the weekend.
He does have his own car so I'm stuck at home but honestly it's not like I can go anywhere because I have no money. My sister controls my mom's social security and pension.
She says it's because I live here rent free. But I also clean her house and watch her children and pets. I'm so done I'm just waiting and hoping that my mom will die soon so I can leave.