I am So Angry!

I am so angry that I have to deal with this situation without any help from my siblings. You would think they would take my mom to visit for a week here or there so I could have a break.


I am filled with anger and resentment and I don't want to be bothered with them at all anymore.
If they don't care enough to help out then fine, when she passes, I won't bother them with the information.

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by: Greenacres

If your siblings do not help you, don't think about it if it upsets you because you can't change their behavior. My mom is only 75, have two sisters and i just had to cut them out of my life because it was toxic to talk to them.

One, for logistics can't be around and the youngest (who by the way has her power of attorney) hasn't been over to visit for 14 months! Her and mom communicate, but mom can't be herself with her because she gets irate very quickly.

Their lies and politeness make me sick. I don't get any emotional support from sisters and talking to them makes me second guess myself, so, out of my life they went. Don't get me wrong, it hurts.

Just love your mother, she is the only one you have. I know it's hard but only think about the fun and positives in your life. you are lucky to have mom. Sorry to say ,but she won't live forever! Please give yourself a hug, you are a loving person. Stay Well<3

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