I am very resentful towards my sister. Because I don't work and live closer to our mother, I do most of the trips to the doctor and taking our mother to different places...stores, shopping, to the ER on numerous occasions, etc.
My sister has plans to go away for Christmas, but did not not tell me. She did tell my mother.
Am I wrong in feeling that she should do me the courtesy of mentioning it to me? She doesn't bother to check to see if we have made any plans. Suppose my husband and I had decided to go away?
Granted my sister and I really don't get along well, we are cordial to each other, but I don't think that telling me to has plans to go out of town for Christmas is too much to ask.