German Mother in Law Problems

by Tona
(NC)

I am taking care of a 91-year-old mother-in-law that has always been uncaring towards me when I first married my husband she's selfish self-centered.


She's also very German and no compassion. Her only daughter lives out of state about six hours away which only comes one weekend a year. Now this daughter is her golden child she thinks the world cents on this one. Every time she comes to town it's always just to take something away the China the Crystal.

Now we are to inherit the house and that is only because my sister-in-law doesn't want the house because she lives out of state but she is getting the money that's in the bank that's more than the cost of the house.

Even though she's never had to do any anything at all help her mother. And I just don't think this is right I would love to just pack my mother-in-law up and send her to her golden child I'm a see how well miss golden child takes care of her.

Because in my heart I don't think her daughter gives a damn about her it's only to get what she can get out of the woman and I'm sick and tired of taking care of her mother and I get no respect from the woman she treats me like I am the hired help.

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Abandon the Whole Thing
by: Anonymous

get your mother Inlaw into other accommodation and finance it with the sale of her house.

problem solved

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