My dad recently passed and my mom fell and broke her back and has hydrocephalus....it has affected her thinking and walking. She is having surgery soon for shunt placement and in the meantime she is home. There are caregivers that come in and take care of her M-F with assistance from myself and siblings.
My sister lives across the street from Mom and goes over every night to help her to bed. My sister has taken it upon herself to do EVERYTHING and I have offered to help but she wants to do everything but then gets mad because she is doing everything.
I set up Mom's medications and try to help with the medical aspect of care but my sister gets mad about that too. I'm damned if I do or don't. My sister is a control freak. I'm at my wits end....we got into another fight tonight. What do I need to do?