i am extremely resentful being the "chosen one" caregiver to my mom...My dad passed away 5 months ago and I also did anything and everything for him and my mom, from finding nursing care, financial obligations, legal issues, last minute duties....and now it continues with mom...she recently fell and broke her ankle, and was completely disabled...
I have had to find her 24 hour home care...interviewed and spoken with endless possible caretakers. My brothers are lazy and I think they are deadbeats when it comes to this.. they don't even communicate and are MIA conveniently at times..
I am beyond frazzled and angry... to top it off we removed moms use of her car and driving 1 1/2 years ago and since my brother needed a car she gave it to him with the thought that he would pay her the monthly lease payment and car insurance.... he still has not, and now in planning her budget for home care she is barely able to meet her monthly costs for it.. He doesn't even offer to pay it.