I've already done my parent care giving - I took care of my mother 12 years ago when she was terminally ill and on home hospice (her home).
Now I have an 89-year-old neighbor and when I got laid off six months ago I knew she would call me more than usual when she noticed I was home all day. She had her drivers license taken away 8 months ago, so now she calls on me to drive her to the doctor, take her to the store or pick up milk for her. She only calls me once every few weeks but I find I'm getting really resentful.
Her only son lives in the next state and wants her to move over there, but she doesn't want to leave her own home. She has plenty of money, but won't spend it. Maybe I'm resentful because I feel she's spoiled - always had someone (father, husband, friend) to do things for her and she won't become self-reliant by calling a cab, or repair person. I'm looking forward to the day her son puts her in assisted living.