Easy Choice

by Cindy
(Colorado, USA)

Out of the four siblings… I am the only divorced family member and therefore the easy choice to be the caregiver to my father. I feel somewhat isolated from my family although my dad and I live within two miles from my sister who is always too busy to make time for regular visits.


I was hoping this would be a family shared responsibility. However it turns out that the others feel happy that I am living with him and therefore don't concern themselves with the difficulties I face.

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