Do I need to invite sister to visit mom in my home
My mom has lived with my husband and our family for a year and a half My children are grown. A 26, 21 and 16 year old live at home. I have 2 other children who have lived here on and off in that time..My sister lives 10 minutes away and never visits my Mom. She and I have had had a strained relationship on and off over the years.
I’ve always been the “favorite“ so that’s certainly a part of it..Anyway, I have said one the few occasions I’ve seen her that “ the house is always open “ to visit Mom
Who is obligated to invite ? I’m starting to think maybe even given her difficult nature I should have invited her to visit my mom since it is my home she may not have felt she could just show up
But she is hard to deal with.
She’s a person I’ve texted invitations in the past before my mom came and she’s just ignored them or said no.
I’m tired of always being rejected
She has only come to get her about 1x a month for dinner.at a restaurant she hasn’t come for a visit outside of a holiday to visit her.
I am a person who would have invited her over but kind of sick of it.
In a normal relationship with this scenario, who is responsible for it ? Should the sister just come over or was I wrong I’m not inviting since it’s my home and my mother lives here ?