by Isabella M.
I try to talk about it as though she and I were having a discussion about anything. But she doesn't want to think she will ever die, or that it will ever be necessary for her to go to a nursing home.
I don't want her to have to, and will do all I can to prevent it, but if she becomes unable to walk or completely (bowel) incontinent, it could be a problem.
I worry that she is becoming fearful of me... maybe I should not be so honest about it.
Does anyone have ideas?