I have a sick aged 91 year old mother sick for 15 years with cops and the last almost 5 years unable to be independent at all. Has side 10x7.
But problem is zero support from all of family 3 siblings have nothing to do with either mom or myself for most part. Full of excuses not to be here and all of caregiving all on me.
Never but never do they or ever did step to plate fixing house, etc., since dad passed 28 years ago. Understandably so with brother in a faraway state. But other one and 3 hours ago sickening to realize not once did they give me a wee nothing at all even a phone call to cheer me up...they are awful. Impossible situation.
I hear they will be feeling the hurt when she's passed but in meantime hard seeing how mean and selfish all of them are and always have been.