Daughter

by Debra
(Old Saybrook, CT)

Angry all the time I am talking with her and bringing up all the mistakes, I have made. Lying about the truth in her past.


I remember what really happened and she makes up a story to make her feel better about the situation. Only striking out at me and maybe my step-dad. Very jealous, judgmental and possessive.

I am an only child. My mom is 77 years old and I am 57 years old. I noticed a big difference in her personality in October of 2010. She is very healthy but, makes us me and my children over-react because instead of telling the truth about her illness like a simple cold she tells us she has acute sinusitis or the latest one was she has a simple eye-lid surgery to remove a cancer lesion and she told me and my children she had eye cancer.

I have offered to go to the doctor with her to hear the truth but, she makes my step-dad take her who is 70 years old and then makes him sit in the waiting room!!!!

I am losing my mind dealing with her because she never has a positive thought. She has always been negative but, not this bad. My Aunt has dementia and Alzheimer's which is her sister-in-law and she won't believe it!!!! Help!!!!!!!!!!!

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From One Daughter to Another
by: Anonymous

You need to take your Mom to a neurologist and/or psychiatrist to be evaluated for Alzheimer's. My Mother has it, so I know the warning signs.Do it for yourself, so you will know the truth. Good luck.

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