Daughter

by Debra
(Old Saybrook, CT)

Angry all the time I am talking with her and bringing up all the mistakes, I have made. Lying about the truth in her past.


I remember what really happened and she makes up a story to make her feel better about the situation. Only striking out at me and maybe my step-dad. Very jealous, judgmental and possessive.

I am an only child. My mom is 77 years old and I am 57 years old. I noticed a big difference in her personality in October of 2010. She is very healthy but, makes us me and my children over-react because instead of telling the truth about her illness like a simple cold she tells us she has acute sinusitis or the latest one was she has a simple eye-lid surgery to remove a cancer lesion and she told me and my children she had eye cancer.

I have offered to go to the doctor with her to hear the truth but, she makes my step-dad take her who is 70 years old and then makes him sit in the waiting room!!!!

I am losing my mind dealing with her because she never has a positive thought. She has always been negative but, not this bad. My Aunt has dementia and Alzheimer's which is her sister-in-law and she won't believe it!!!! Help!!!!!!!!!!!

Comments for Daughter

Average Rating starstarstarstarstar

Click here to add your own comments

Rating
starstarstarstarstar
From One Daughter to Another
by: Anonymous

You need to take your Mom to a neurologist and/or psychiatrist to be evaluated for Alzheimer's. My Mother has it, so I know the warning signs.Do it for yourself, so you will know the truth. Good luck.

Click here to add your own comments

Join in and write your own page! It's easy to do. How? Simply click here to return to Elder Care Anger and Resentment.


Home | Site Map | About | Contact | Privacy Policy | Disclosure

© Copyright evSky Incorporated 2008-2018 | All Rights Reserved


Eldercare for

Aging Parents

Are you having a difficult time with being the "Caregiver" for Mom and Dad?

Click Here to Read What Others are Saying and Leave a Comment About Your Own Experiences....

Or Start your Own Discussion Page!

Recent Articles

  1. Mom and Dad 90 and 89 need me to help - D64

    Nov 13, 18 02:05 PM

    Dad is in denial of Moms Dementia , he doesn't know about her dementia because she is with him a lot and he is too kind to be abused at this age , also

    Read More

  2. Hurt Feelings

    Nov 13, 18 02:04 PM

    My story is about my partners mum. She lives near Newcastle and is 86 with dementia. His younger brother lives near to her whereas we live 180 miles away.

    Read More

  3. Shallow, Hallow, Empty...

    Oct 31, 18 10:37 AM

    We share in the care taking of his mother. She has dementia & Alzheimer's...He's the middle son of four. He was the chosen one in his mom's inappropriate

    Read More