by Chet
(Flushing Queens New York )

I and my wife are retired. I'm 68 and my wife is 63. Her mother just passed away in September, my problem is my life is disappearing right before my eyes. Everything is her father, shopping,health, financial. Everything is being done by my wife. She is under terrible stress and her anger seems misplace at me.

I am a retired Registered nurse and very angry that we are living for my father in law. He was totally independent when suddenly he became dependent.

I am frustrated and at my breaking point. I don't know how to handle this,short of ENDING my marriage of 38 years.

My in laws lived their life's when they where growing up and continues to live their thru us .I m desperate and only getting worse. NEED HELP

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