Caretaker of 76 yr old single mother... I am the only child..
I get blamed for everything. I am stupid, lazy don't know how to do anything I have no patience I'm a bad ungrateful daughter. She hates my husband and says he rules over me. Constantly complaining about him. She complains about food, cloth, schedules basically life.
If she has to take medication like antibiotics she can not focus or follow simple instructions on when and how to take medicine. Can not do simple math.
And just recently badmouths my husband and I to basically anyone that will listen even strangers.
She has always belittled me for the decision i have made when i was a teenager for being overweight for not having the acceptable to her standards hair style for not having taste in clothing in colors i mean basically everything.
I cant take anymore I feel like she is breaking me down emotionally and I'm scared that these events will shape me to becoming just like her to my children.