Caregiving "borrowing" Items without Permission, Mom on Her Side
My mother is typical, predictable, disgusting and ugly. Some items were taken from my room, my family didn't do it. I asked them and I believe them when they say it wasn't them.
So that leaves the caregivers. Long story short, I left a note for the caregivers asking them to respect my privacy. Bad move.
Of course it was shown to my mother. I was trying to keep her out of the loop. Why? Because she wouldn't side with me. Sure enough, now that she knows I left a note asking the caregivers to respect my privacy and not enter my room, she was all ready to dig into me with her rage.
Thankfully my brother intervened and explained to her the reality of the situation. Eventually she said she would talk to the caregivers herself.
Good for you, I wanted to say. Let me know when you're done suspecting ME of making stuff up just for fun. She is such a piece of work. One aspect is her unfailing ability to treat strangers so much better than family, or at least, this daughter. I guess I cannot say "family".
But me for sure. She's always sided with others, and there have been so many others. Anyways, I know we all have so much pain going on, so I won't write too much.
I care about everyone on this site. I think we have to care for ourselves first and foremost. I'm really trying to do that myself.