Caregiving and Time - I feel like she is taking me prisioner and making me her world when I already have too many responsibilitys and other family obligations
Caregiving and Time Management
I resent her treating me as if I am her young little child (I am 50) to boss around and jump to what ever she harps on and listen to all the woes and aches and pains every day make me depressed.
She sometimes hurls sarcasm and insults to the technique I use in solving problems, and usually I am in a good mood until it continues to weigh on my day like the demands of (HER) schedule.....I'm only here for her she thinks....
She always needs attention, look at me...or listen to me....and I am too busy to always be a one-on-one entertainer. My blood-pressure has been starting to make me feel real bad physically and my bowels hurt a lot. I think I have repressed anger built up and feel like everyone wants me to do all the dealing with her since I am "after all"... her daughter. I need to get away sometimes and sometimes I need to just be there to keep her happy.
I wish she felt better but she is 70 years old now and has a lot of health issues. She has loss of her bowel function and has a wheelchair.