My wife and myself end up on call 24/7. I do have a sister who may or may not help. A couple of others who give a little time if they have nothing else to do.
We have a home and goats on farm which need a lot of care. We have neglected them for him. Our property looks terrible. We have been doing some remodeling of our home. That has been halted until I can be there.
Our health seems to be depleted due to sitting around and sleeping on sofas while watching him.
He has always been active until breaking a hip a few months ago. Now everything is about him.Normally he wouldn't expect you to sacrifice for him, Mother died a few months ago which has set him back.
He fell about 6 months ago and broke hip. Went to rehab but not much help for a 94 yr old. people around us are going here and there for vacations. we have not had a vacation in 10-11yrs. Burned out.