Can't Deal with Father in Law Living with Us Anymore

by Kerry
(PA)

I am 46 years old with a husband and three children age 17,8, and 10. After my husband's mother died, his sister took in my father in law for about 2 years. He is now 87.


Three years ago when he went to visit my other husband's sister she got a phone call telling her it is not a good idea for him to return there. We were all under the impression it was her sister's husbands fault that he always hit in nasty arguments with him.

Well, long story short he ended up moving in with us which we had literally just bought the house of our dreams to raise our children in and to my horror we have found out the hard way it wasn't their fault at all but his fathers.

He is so difficult to live with he has a compulsive disorder which that alone can make me rip my hair out. Pushes his very bigoted views on us and always has an opinion and always questions each and every thing I do all day especially when it comes to my children.

Even my husband snaps at him sometimes but I can't take it anymore. When it was brought up to his other sister she did not offer to take him just criticized us for not wanting him and making us feel guilty.

He originally was only going to live with us temporarily until he got his own place but ended up guilting my husband into staying with us. I don't even feel like my new house is mine is too overbearing what can I do??

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Kick him out
by: Anonymous

You can ask him to leave, don't feel guilty you are entitled to a nice life.

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