Burnt Out Cold Sister whose Younger Brother is Healthy but Feigned Illness

by Debra
(Coarsregold, CA Madera CO)

My younger brother 64, showed up our door & moved in. He has taken over our lives and acts like he has a bad back so we will wait on him hand and foot. Seriously all he does is control the TV remote. Play it at ear shattering volume, eats like he can't get enough food. Walks slower than a sloth with a cane.


And has the audacity to tell me who has moderate to severe copd and my hubby how to live. He buys groceries so that gives him what right? He and my hubby are both 64. But hubby works full time and comes home to be a nurse. When I have exacerbation its really hell. Please help.

Bro came with $130,000. We encouraged him to build a granny flat we have 10 acres, but he refuses to even look unless we build it underground. Help

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