Big Day Coming - Moving Mom into Memory Care
by Daughter is Trying
Can anyone help me with the guilt I feel? I will be tricking her into leaving her home, and bringing her to a memory care community.
How can this day be here, after all these years?
I am scared and nervous, for her, for me.
What will it be like for her?
The difference between living in your own independent home and being in a public facility with lots of people is huge.
I feel like I have no right to do this to her, but I can't keep sacrificing myself forever.
I feel that I am betraying her trust.
She took care of me and now I am imprisoning her.
It's actually a very nice place, and I have researched this for years.
However, I am still nervous.