Bev B

by Beverley
(Goulburn NSW Aust)

Mum is 91 this year, and we've always had a volatile relationship if we get into deep and meaningful conversation. mum will never talk about what happened if we do have a disagreement. I have been the daughter living here and see her every day for a 5 minute physiotherapy on her chest as she has bronchitis.


Over the last few years she has been getting more and more irritable with me, mainly talking about me to my siblings and daughters.

It is all so unjustified that I am always angry and upset, often so stressed I get a migraine headache. It is a real love/hate/guilt feeling and I wish I could escape.

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