Beam me up Scottie!
Where do I begin? Sounds like a song. About four years ago my Mom began showing signs of dementia. Of course, I covered it up to other family members
who are typically not around but eventually everyone noticed moms deteriorating memory and confusion.
While working full time, caring for my children, caring for my Mom I guess my other half decided this was a really good opportunity to seek out other relationships! I wondered how I could be so lucky to have such an understanding
spouse and now I know why. What bothers me more than his infidelity is his lack of compassion for my mom or our family.
How did I find out you ask? I was told to pack and stay the entire weekend taking care of my mother all the while he had his plans with his new love interest. What hurts more is my own children played a role in this too! My work life has taken a beating and jackass of a boss is threatening me with having taken south time off
.....he is concerned about my job there!
Sad to say but I can only find space while I'm taking care of my Mom. I feel like her needs should be first since she needs help from me and my brothers and sisters. I am seriously thinking of throwing in the towel here at my so-called
home and leaving my jerk of a husband and our two kids behind!
I cannot and will not neglect my duties as a daughter because I truly love my mom. I'm just at a complete loss right now.